Monday, November 29, 2010
Extra Credit!
Tuesday, November 23, 2010
After the Wedding by Greg Weinstein
Monday, November 22, 2010
After the Wedding - Craig Walters
Sunday, November 21, 2010
After the Wedding- Amanda Carman
As is revealed or implied throughout the course of the film, Jorgen discovers that he has a fatal, incurable disease and, in response to this, tracks down the father of his wife's daughter (Jacob) to serve as a replacement in the lives of his wife and children. He invites Jacob to Denmark under the guise of a meeting to discuss funding Jacob's orphanage, and ends up inviting him to the daughter's wedding. There, Jacob discovers that Jorgen's wife is his previous lover and the daughter is his daughter. As the film progresses, Jacob (led by Jorgen) integrates himself further into the family. Jorgen goes so far as to set up a possible cheating scenario (leaving for the weekend and insisting that Jacob take his wife out to dinner), even displaying a degree of cruelty toward Helene before the trip (whether this was intentional or a side effect of excessive alcohol consumption is difficult to say; Jorgen was very controlled throughout most of the film, but his internalized grief may have pushed him to drink beyond his control, making the hostile exchange with his wife less a preconceived means of pushing her away from his mortal self toward Jacob and more a case of emotional overload). Both Jacob and Helene negotiate this moral pitfall with ease; neither give in nor truly express temptation to cheat.
The next moral conundrum Jorgen presents is the decision Jacob must make in regards to the orphanage. Does he give up his direct work with the children, especially the child he raised, to give them the funds they need or does he stand up to the rich bastard pulling the strings, leaving the orphanage without a penny but keeping his dignity and integrity intact? In the end, he chooses to stay in Denmark. This, I feel, was the more morally correct decision when considering the different needs of the family in Denmark and the orphans in India. In India, they needed the funds more than the emotional support of one man; if he had returned without the money, the orphanage would have failed and the children would have been homeless and starving once more. By giving up the personal involvement with the project, he gave the children what they needed most; once they meet their basic needs they will be able to focus on more abstract needs, like the need for emotional support. Pramod demonstrates this in the end; despite his apparent dependency on Jacob throughout the film, he chooses to stay where he is rather than travel to Denmark. Things are good here, he says, demonstrating that his need for basic things was more driving than his need for Jacob particularly. The family in Denmark, however, has their basic needs more than met and need emotional support. They are rich enough to worry.
Jorgen's own moral negotiations are more complicated than the ones he presents to the other characters. There is the issue of his lie of omission in regards to his health. On one hand, his family had a right to know and prepare for his inevitable death. On the other, he was able to spare them some pain for a while, but the knowledge that he had been hiding the truth from them created a different pain, a trust-severing pain that ended up being more hurtful to his family than merely finding out that he was doomed to die. His ultimate motivation was largely selfish; as he told Anna, he did not want them to see him as a dead man until he was one, suggesting a desire to keep his dignity until he passed. This is further reinforced during his emotional conversation with Helene, where he tells her that he didn't want her to see him in the pathetic state he finds himself embodying.
The other major moral negotiation undertaken by Jorgen is the idea of replacing himself in his family without their knowledge and consent. He upends their lives, and the life of Jacob, by bringing Jacob to the wedding and forcing old wounds of Helene's, Jacob's, and Anne's to reopen. The motivation here was largely selfless, I feel; I think he genuinely felt like it would help his family move past his death to have another father in the picture. It was morbidly brave of him to so carefully plot out his own replacement, especially because it's programmed pretty deeply in the human mind that we do not wish to be replaced in anybody's hearts, much less in the hearts of your wife and children. It is deeper contemplation on this inevitable outcome to his plan that leads the otherwise held-together man (disregarding alcoholic influences) to break down in one of the most heart-wrenchingly emotional scenes I've ever witnessed, further supporting the selfless nature of this plan to replace himself. Despite the selflessness, the damage to all parties cannot be disregarded. As for the moral outcome, I suppose it depends on whether you believe the end justifies the means. Was it worth the disruption and emotional scarring of all involved parties to give his family some stability after his death? I remain undecided on this point.
After the Wedding - J. Miley
Therefore, in the end, money is not enough to show that you care. We see this because Helene and Anna have it; they have “bookoodles” of it. What they need it the aforementioned time and love. So the question is. "Who needs it more?" The film says Helene and Anna. But then it does show us that final montage, essentially showing us/Jacob what is being missed out on. Thus, the shot of Jacob is final image concerning the main plot whereas that montage could more or less be the final shot of the “secondary” plot or the meta-plot, the meaning of the film.
After The Wedding - Amber Merrell
We also see the difference among cultures in the movie. The main characters, living in the developed world, are constantly bombarded by personal problems and relationship issues. They are shown to be rather unhappy through much of the movie. Pramod represents the developing world and he seems to be much happier and less troubled than the other characters. Granted, he is a child, but the lesson is still evident. At the end of the movie, when he is given the option of going to the developed world with Jacob, his father figure, he gives up the chance because he is happy where he is. He has heard Jacob talking about how he doesn’t like the people where he is from and so Pramod doesn’t understand why he would choose to be with mean and unhappy people when he could be at home with the people he likes. He has everything he needs in the developing world, though he has much less in the ways of material things and luxuries. This shows that perhaps those in the developing world have priorities more focused on having a simple, happy life rather than focusing on more material aspects of life like developing countries seem to.
After the Wedding - Bradley Strickland
The film is sandwiched by scenes of rural India. You see images of undeveloped Indian with starving children who have to live on the street and young girls forced into prostitution. These people have to worry about living- having food to eat or a place to sleep; or worry getting money for the shelter. They have to work to stay alive. While at the same time, Jorgen and those who live in Denmark have complicated lives that center on birthday dinners, wedding receptions, and reputations. These are chronicled in the “meat” of the film. The comparison of the social complexities between the two sides of the world is interesting because at first glance it seems that the film comments on the vainness of the way the wealthier part of society lives. But the framing is much more complicated than that. The film makes an obvious point that the complexities within Danish society come at a price; they tear at relationships and add immense moral dilemmas. In fact, just as those on the streets in India have to worry about death everyday so does the wealthy businessman, Jorgen.
We cannot help but to see an interesting commentary on social inequality in the film. As Jorgen and Jacob discuss the horrifying statistics of all the women and children dying in India and how insignificant an individual life seems in the spattering of numbers, the film emphasizes the death of one man and details the complexities associated with his death. Is this a comment upon how futile we are as a society when the death of one man is more important than the death of another? Or does this just simply describe a sociological pattern?
It is also interesting how money lies at the center of nearly every moral negotiation in this film. We see Jorgen as the ideal husband, father, businessman, and son. However, he still wants to prove himself when he dies. He remarks that the fund is pay back for his sins. Here, money is used as a moral currency. Jorgen believes that using his money in a philanthropic way makes him a great man. I wonder if and how does he think a poor man can pay back for his sins? This also creates complications for Jacob. Jacob is in a bind in that he refuses to lose his dignity and “be bought,” however he feels a strong obligation to his shelter and Pramod. Eventually, his decision to stay in Demark was the best he could do. He acknowledged this with a final smile – knowing that he has made his family happy (both Pramod and Helene and his daughter).